Do you remember watching Sabrina growing up? Practicing her signature nose twitch in front of the mirror? I never seemed to get it quite right, but it’s safe to say that I’ve always wanted to be a witch.
Why?
Is that even a valid question? Who wouldn’t want to change the world at the twitch of their nose? But, that’s a different story, for some other day.
Last night, while taking my midnight stroll something reminded me about the show.
No, I didn’t glimpse a swanky broomed miss whooshing the ebony skies.
But I spotted a beautiful black cat, exactly like Salem! He was perched gracefully on our sidewalk.
I could almost see him rolling his emerald green eyes, spewing a sarcastic retort like, “Cat got your tongue, sugar?”, when he caught me staring at him.
I’m sure you wildlife enthusiasts are thinking that this was a very mundane sighting, that I’m trying to make my little time outside the walls of home sound fantastical. You’re absolutely right! Cut me some slack, we’re still in the middle of a pandemic.
However, I do have an epiphany to share.
It has little to do with the gorgeous feline I had spotted, and more with my response to him.
I found myself subconsciously reaching for my phone to click a picture, lest he slinked away before I could click him.
It stopped me in my tracks for a moment.
Why did I need to click that picture?
Why did I need to validate the beauty of this moment with digital proof? Why couldn’t I just admire this ebony cat, instead of trying to capture its fleeting presence in my life?
It got me thinking, that as human beings immersed in a digital age, we’re never fully living our present. Rather, we’re capturing it for our future selves, or to share with others when the moment has passed, not realizing that we’ve never actually experienced the moment itself.
I’ve done this a gazillion times. With friends, food, sunsets and birds. I’m sure you must have too?
But is it right to blame this on the digital age? Isn’t that an extension of the popular refrain, “Kids these days! They’re always on their phones” ?
While it’s tough to refute this borderline universal claim, I would like to believe that there’s something more human driving our instincts to capture these moments.
Mortal life at its core is both fleeting and uncertain. Moments of pure wonder and happiness are rare. They dot our days very sporadically.
I think we choose to capture them so that we can remember. Not just that moment, but also remember the bigger picture.
When the endless days of existence get to us, these snapshots remind us about the inexplicably rich piece of art we’re part of and are extending in our own small ways.
They teach us that there’s beauty even in the mundane, we just have to pause for a moment and look around. We don’t have to wait for milestones to celebrate, because life definitely isn’t a road trip!